Saturday, 20 July 2013

Not Pinterest perfect.

Like most people, I have a love-hate relationship with Pinterest. I get so inspired looking at all the things that creative, talented people come up with. Of course some of these people really should get a life and not make intricate cake pops with the faces resembling each character off Sesame Street but one there are some really amazingly gifted people out there. I love photography, OK so maybe not so much taking the photo itself but having beautiful photos of precious memories so I have been spending a lot of time on Pinterest looking at ideas for maternity photos, especially maternity photos ideas that involve Natallie being in them.
 
When we were in Seattle, we went to Golden Gardens Beach and I envision capturing some gorgeous maternity photos like these ones on Pinterest. I realized that (1) I am not a pregnant super model (seriously, how do these women have such flawless looking bellies?) and (2) an iPhone 5 is not a great camera. So perhaps if I did look like these gorgeous women and had an actual photographer other than my more-than-patient-but-no-photography-skills husband to take the photos, I could re-create beach beauties like these ones:


But considering the above things and with the help of a little photo editing, these are my attempt at a beach maternity photo shoot. Not Pinterest  perfect but at least I can say they are of real life:




 
I also really want maternity pictures with Natallie in them. The ones below are my favourites so far and I have been trying to capture moments like these ever since I've had these pictures engrained in my memory. However, the kids in this photo must not really be REAL toddlers because REAL toddlers, at least mine, Won't STAY STILL for a second. And when the camera is poised and ready and I say, "Can you kiss mommy's baby?" she says no and runs away.
 
 
 
Simon's mom was here the last few days and she has a nice Canon camera and agreed to try a do a mother-daughter maternity photo shoot. Maybe these moms bribed their kids with candy or something because my daughter just wanted to run, run, run. Getting her to look happy and awe-struck at my belly was so boring to her. She had slides to go down and dogs to chase! Oh well, that's real life vs. Pinterest perfect for you.  These are the best ones we captured:





 
My sister is going to be back from Cambodia in next week and she agreed to try and do another maternity photo shoot for me at Spanish Banks. I am hopeful that we'll get some good shots but if Natallie just wants to play at the beach instead of kiss my belly, that's OK too.

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Working those strawberry fields

One of my best friends invited me and Natallie to come strawberry picking. Natallie just adores her girls, Sienna (3 yrs old) and Nala (just 3 months younger than Natallie).

The first farm we went to was actually closed so we drove to another one close by. We both had a rather large bucket that we were optimistically thinking we could fill but after a few minutes, we realized that Natallie and Nala just wanted to eat strawberries and we could not pick strawberries as fast as the girls were consuming them.

before we started- notice the large ambitious sized buckets?

We lowered our expectations and switched to the small bucket for making sand castles and got it half full. We were slightly disappointed that the strawberries we were picking looked like the imported California steroid strawberries that were big in size but not very tasty. Later, we realized we were picking in the wrong field and those were the ones were the stores and the U-Pick field actually had the local, small but sweet strawberries we were looking for.










heading back with the big buckets empty and the small buckets half-full
Oh well, it was more for the experience and the photos anyways. We bought a flat of local blueberries after and the girls were more than happy to plop themselves down next to the huge box of blueberries and eat until their faces were blue so all in all that's a pretty successful berry picking adventure!

Tuesday, 2 July 2013

Do's and Don'ts for cross-border fun.

Last year we went to Seattle to do a little cross border shopping and went to the zoo and I made several conclusions about traveling with a baby (you can read it again if you want: here).

So having learned my lessons from last year, we did the trip again this year and here is my list of Do's and Don'ts for crossing the border, outlet shopping and going to the Seattle zoo.


Do expect your child to not sleep and cry the whole way in the car so that when she does sleep miraculously most of the way, you are shocked beyond measure and thus in a really good mood after.

Do check that everyone’s passports are not expired (learned that lesson the hard way last time we tried to cross the border)

Do pack lots of snacks and treats so that when its your turn to talk to the border guard, your child is so busy eating that she won't be screaming and crying.

Do have realistic expectations of shopping with a toddler. (i.e., Don't expect to shop at all)

Do not try to take a stroller into the outlet mall, they don’t fit in between the aisles and she won’t sit in it anyways.

Do find something fun in the store for your child to do so you and your spouse can take turns shopping (for Natallie it was the shoe aisle, she literally tried on at least a dozen or more shoes at the Nike outlet and cried when we told her we had to go)
do let Natallie try on shoes

and more shoes...

and more shoes!

Don’t bother bringing your child into stores with no shoe or toy aisle. The Fossil watch store is not a good idea unless you want to see how many watches and expensive bracelets your child can try to put on when you turn your back. 
do take turns dipping Natallie into the fountain at the outlet mall

do take turns taking Natallie on the ride-on toys (don't actually put money in them)

Do expect that none of the streets go straight and almost every intersection is a 5-way street in Seattle.

Do bring along a GPS to help you navigate but don’t be looking at it so closely that you miss your turns.

Do experiment and let your child drink most of your caramel frappachino. For us, we had a deliriously happy baby but I guess it could backfire too.

Don’t stay at a hotel unless you want to be room-bound and  super quiet after 7:30pm.

Do rent a basement suite for the same price (or less) than a hotel. And bonus of us, Natallie’s play pen fits in the walk-in closet so it was like having 2 bedrooms. 

Do buy groceries so you can have a nice pancake breakfast in the basement suite instead of eating all your meals in a restaurant (anyone with child knows that eating out isn’t quite as much fun and relaxing as it was before having a child)

Do scope out coupons for attractions ahead of time. We had a 2 for 1 coupon for the zoo and saved $18 and we found street parking which saved us another $5.50


Do spend that saved money on memorable experiences like feeding a giraffe.



Do not get suckered in to buy that $6 ice cream when you’re at the zoo and cross the street to the 7-11 instead and get the $2 “Amercian” size slurpee big enough to quest the thirst of a small army. 

Do check out the zoo map ahead of time to make sure you get to see the really "good animals" before your child gets too whiny and tired.
 

Do take pictures of the animals you see so you can talk about it after. Natallie still remembers which animals were sleeping, the elephant was having a bath and that the monkeys were loud.





 
Do bring a blanket and have your child’s lullaby music on your iPhone playlist so your child can have their afternoon nap at the zoo in their stroller (I couldn’t believe how easily Natallie went to sleep!)

Do buy a cheap toy from the Zoo gift shop that is connected to an experience they will remember. Bonus for us the $4 giraffe entertained Natallie most of the car ride back home.
 
Do try going downtown for a nice dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. Don’t bother looking for free street parking (just pay the $7 and save your energy for trying to keep a toddler in her highchair and not throwing cutlery or food)

Do check out the Golden Gardens beach in Seattle. Don’t try rolling a stroller along the beach,  it just gets suck in the sand.

Do not expect your child to love the ocean. Natallie was scared and preferred to throw rocks in the ocean and not even get her toe wet. 
Terrified to get her toes wet!
Much happier on the sand throwing rocks

watching me attempt to skip rocks
Natallie saying "throw!" after she threw rocks in the ocean
And of course
Do take lots of pictures so you can tell your child about it when they are older.





Sunday, 23 June 2013

Natallie's first 5K: follow up

A couple weeks ago, I (Natallie) asked for you to help bring clean water to kids who are less fortunate than me and I want to say a big THANK YOU to everyone who donated because together we have raised $40,000 to bring clean water to a Mayan community in rural Guatemala! And I ran as much as I could!
my mommy, auntie rainbee and me before the race
 
me and my daddy before the race

ready to go!
 


look at me run!

that's me running as fast as I can

daddy carrying me across the finish line

yay I did it!